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how do i know if i need a life coach or a therapist (or both)?

Writer's picture: Justin LyonsJustin Lyons


When it comes to personal growth, emotional well-being, and achieving goals, many people wonder whether they should turn to therapy or life coaching. While both approaches aim to help individuals improve their lives, they are fundamentally different in their focus, methods, and outcomes. Understanding these distinctions can help you determine which path is more suitable for your unique situation.


Therapy: Understanding and Healing the Past

Therapy is rooted in addressing emotional and psychological challenges that stem from the past. It often focuses on diagnosing and treating mental health issues, working through trauma, and developing coping mechanisms for emotional struggles. Therapists are licensed professionals trained to explore deep-seated issues, helping individuals gain insight into how their past experiences affect their present lives. Therapy is invaluable for those dealing with anxiety, depression, or unresolved emotional pain.


Life Coaching: Empowering Action in the Present

Life coaching, on the other hand, is future-focused and action-oriented. Life coaches work with clients who are ready to move forward but may feel stuck, uncertain, or overwhelmed. Rather than delving deeply into past experiences, life coaching emphasizes setting goals, identifying obstacles, and creating actionable plans for personal and professional success. Life coaches serve as motivators, accountability partners, and guides, helping clients unlock their potential and achieve their aspirations.


Although life coaching is not a regulated profession, some life coaches may offer their support in tandem with their professional backgrounds to help provide clients with support that can more readily meet a clients needs and is not tied to insurance oversight or working on static goals. Having over 15 years of experience as an occupational therapist, a health care professional whose expertise is daily life, I offer evidence based tips and strategies to help my clients reach their goals, in addition to the motivation, accountability and planning skills to help them reach their goals.



Why Life Coaching May Be More Helpful for Some


In my experience, many clients feel a sense of relief when finding me, because they feel they have either explored therapy or feel that the issues they or their child face are more action based and not necessarily the result of past trauma or unresolved issues. For individuals who are not experiencing significant mental health issues or are managing their symptoms but feel unmotivated or unclear about their direction in life, life coaching can be a game-changer. Here’s why:



  1. Focus on Goals: Life coaching centers on creating tangible results. If you’re looking to improve your career, build better relationships, or develop new habits, a life coach can provide the structure and strategies you need. The goal is much more about how do you get to a better place and how to motivate you to get there.


  2. Accountability and Motivation: The reason why I love branding myself as a professional older brother is because I offer my clients the love, concern and support a brother would offer you- but also the honest and realness that a brother would approach you with, when you are not doing what you are suppose to or are making excuses for why you cannot do something. Coaches hold clients accountable for their progress, ensuring they stay on track. This level of encouragement can be especially helpful for those who struggle to maintain momentum on their own.


  3. Future-Driven Approach: While therapy often spends time unpacking the past, coaching is all about the "what’s next?" mindset, making it ideal for those eager to take actionable steps toward their goals. As I often share with my clients, we need to figure out where are we at now and how do we get to where we want to be tomorrow.


  4. Practical Tools and Strategies: Life coaching sessions often include tools, exercises, and frameworks that clients can immediately apply to their lives, making the process highly practical and results-oriented. Many activities I encourage clients to do are eye opening activities for them. It is hard to see yourself through your own lens. Having a professional who understands you and your needs is very helpful when trying to figure out the right tools that are needed for goal achievement.





Choosing What’s Right for You

Therapists are incredibly helpful and needed professionals in todays day and age. Therapists are armed with education that may help potential clients work through mental health issues or unresolved trauma. Though their work is important and can be game changing, some people find therapy to be too intense or intrusive. Some people are more interested in figuring out how to move forward than sit in their past.


The choice between therapy and life coaching ultimately depends on your current needs. If you’re grappling with deep emotional pain or unresolved mental health challenges, therapy is likely the better option. However, if you’re in a place where you’re ready to make positive changes but need guidance, motivation, and a clear plan, life coaching may be the perfect fit.


Life coaching isn’t about replacing therapy; it’s about complementing it or serving as a distinct approach for those ready to take their lives to the next level. If you’re feeling stuck but know you have the potential for more, life coaching could be the transformative experience you’ve been seeking. Contact me or find out more information about how I can help you as a life coach, by checking me out at www.specialconnects.com

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