3 Things You Can Do to Be More Grateful
- Justin Lyons

- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
“Gratitude turns what we have into enough.”— Melody Beattie
Have You Ever Noticed How Gratitude Changes Everything?
Gratitude isn’t just saying “thank you.”
It’s a way of seeing the world — shifting your focus from what’s missing to what’s meaningful.
When you practice gratitude, you train your brain to notice small joys, deepen connections, and feel more satisfied with life — even when it’s not perfect.
According to a study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology, people who regularly practice gratitude experience higher levels of happiness, stronger relationships, and better mental health.
And the best part? Gratitude is free — and you can start right now.

Start a “Three Things” Journal
Every night before bed, write down three things you’re grateful for.
They don’t have to be big — it could be your morning coffee, a kind message, or the sunset outside your window.
Why it works: Your brain tends to dwell on negatives — a survival instinct known as the negativity bias. Writing down positives retrains your brain to see the good more easily over time.
Pro Tip: If journaling feels too formal, use your phone notes or voice memo. Gratitude isn’t about perfection — it’s about consistency.
Did you know? Research from UC Davis psychologist Robert Emmons, a leading expert on gratitude, found that keeping a daily gratitude journal can boost happiness by 25% in just 10 weeks.
Express Gratitude Out Loud
When was the last time you told someone you appreciate them — not for what they did, but for who they are?
Gratitude grows when shared. Saying thank you out loud, sending a heartfelt message, or even leaving a small note can strengthen relationships and boost your mood.
Try this: Pick one person each week to thank. Tell them how they’ve impacted your life — it could be a teacher, friend, co-worker, or even a family member you don’t say it to enough.
Why it matters: Studies show that expressing gratitude not only improves emotional well-being but also releases oxytocin, the “connection hormone” that helps build trust and reduce stress.
Practice Gratitude in the Moment
Gratitude isn’t only for reflection — it’s also a daily practice. When you catch yourself complaining, pause and ask:
“What’s one thing I can be thankful for right now?”
Maybe traffic gives you time to listen to a podcast. Maybe a long day means you still had the energy to show up. Maybe the rain reminds you to slow down.
These micro-moments of gratitude create mindfulness — they pull you out of autopilot and back into the present.
Mini Exercise: Each time you catch yourself frustrated, list one good thing about that situation. You’ll be surprised how quickly your mindset begins to shift.

Reflective Reminder
Gratitude doesn’t ignore pain — it helps you carry it differently. It’s the quiet reminder that even in chaos, there’s still light.
When you make gratitude a habit, you build resilience, optimism, and peace. It doesn’t change what happens around you — but it transforms how you see it.
Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good exercise — it’s a mindset shift that changes how you move through the world. Start small, express it often, and live it daily. Because gratitude doesn’t just make your day better — it makes you better.
Start your Gratitude Challenge today!
For the next 7 days, list 3 things you’re grateful for every night — and watch how your mindset shifts.
Tag @SpecialConnectsLLC or share your gratitude moments with the hashtag #GratitudeChallenge — because positivity grows when shared. 💛
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